Hello lovely people!!! :)
I've recently have came across the stage that I don't want to be bothered or just want to keep to myself...because I have came to the time in life ,where u feel that friends are always your "friend" .
I try to compromise on just being nice, but some people take my kindness for weakness. Im the sweetest person ever, I have a big heart. But it just seems that people just take you for a joke or even for granted.
Long story short.....
How can I deal with people that just don't care about what your going through ? How can I just stop being so nice ? When I'm living for God and don't want to do the same they do to me ? Help :(
My suggestion would be to pray to God and ask him to reveal, heal and give you the strength and wisdom about the individuals in your life that you call your friends.
I give a lot to my friendships/relationships but it is not always reciprocated, so often times i found myself asking God, how do i know that i am being made a fool and when i am being obedient to the word.
I had a friend that all she did was take, take, and take but never gave to me. we were friends for 19 years and i cut her off and havent looked back since.
once you pray about it, accept God answer and trust in it. You have the best friend of all (jesus).
Always be nice and cordial but dont be anyone's fool. Trust me, God knows the difference
Yeah I had to learn that about people but I had to learn it the hard way. I ended up having to cut a lot of people back. Sometimes it's not about them it's about you and God. Always remember God never disappoints you, people do.
Just keep it cordial. You don't have to talk every time they hit you up,but no need to cut them off in a mean way. I have someone that was a childhood friend who only gossips, calls me when she wants to- I just say oh I don't know about that & change the subject or just get off the phone.
Anngell Butler
hi,
My suggestion would be to pray to God and ask him to reveal, heal and give you the strength and wisdom about the individuals in your life that you call your friends.
I give a lot to my friendships/relationships but it is not always reciprocated, so often times i found myself asking God, how do i know that i am being made a fool and when i am being obedient to the word.
I had a friend that all she did was take, take, and take but never gave to me. we were friends for 19 years and i cut her off and havent looked back since.
once you pray about it, accept God answer and trust in it. You have the best friend of all (jesus).
Always be nice and cordial but dont be anyone's fool. Trust me, God knows the difference
Have a wonderfully blessed day:)
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